why leaving UC/owned subs alone is important

Firstly i could say the obvious thing that is do unto others as you would have them do to you but i think a little more depth is important in this situation. So i'll break this down into sections, firstly like any relationship it's important not to try and put a wedge between a couple in this instance it's the D/s  couple that you would be putting a wedge between. Ethically would you go around trying to split up a couple who are engaged or something just because you had a interest in the man? if you answered yes i would say re-evaluate your thought process if you answered no then why would you want to try and split up a dynamic between two people.

But subs stray. While thats true if they had no where to stray to then they'd be less likely to go from domme to domme to domme (i'm not saying community whores but subs who say they want ownership) i have in my profile that if a sub wants to stray from his mistress to not bother with me because i wont aid in cheating if a sub can't be honest with themselves and others then their not worth my time and shouldn't be worth your time either, because if they'd do it to another domme they'll do it to you and keep going from domme to domme so while sometimes they are responsible for their disloyalty why would you wish to aid them in disrespecting the female gender in general if you believe in female supremacy then helping a sub betray a fellow woman defeats that purpose and even if you don't believe in female supremacy why would you help a sub do something he'd turn around and do to you.

If your a domme and you don't take the time to check to see if a sub is owned or if you know a sub is owned and contact them anyway you'll get a very bad reputation very quickly with other ladies as being rude unethical and distasteful and i've had subs who've been contacted (who wished to remain unnamed) say that they felt that dommes who contacted them when they were owned trying to seduce them away from their owners were sleazy desperate and didn't deserve to be called dominant. Now who wants to run around with a reputation like that i know i don't i'd much rather lose a few bucks by keeping away from owned UC or straying boys then to be seen as anything less than a goddess.

Another point is if you owned a sub how would you feel if you found out a domme was doing it to your owned sub i'm sure you wouldn't appreciate them trying to steal away your pet whether it worked or not it's still a affront to the time and effort you put into owning a sub, lets be realistic ownership while rewarding is a more time consuming and sometimes more tedious thing than just playing with a sub so why would you want to put in all that effort just to get a metaphorical finger from another domme trying to piss on your head and tell you it's raining. If you want you be treated like a respected lady then act like one i don't want other ladies messing with my subs so i don't mess with theirs if we all lived by that then there wouldn't be any issues with sub stealing. Yes dommes are competitive yes theres probably more findommes than finsubs but that doesn't mean you have to act without class. You make less enemies if you follow basic domme etiquette.

Another thing to consider is repercussions other than a bad reputation such as other dommes being less likely to give you heads up on time wasters or give advice or help you etc if you try to steal subs your often times pushed out of the domme sisterhood and treated like a pariah.

This part is for the subs. Not everyone wants to be owned that's logical and understandable if you want to be a community slut be upfront and honest about it your less likely to make enemies that way, why not be honest and leave in your wake a bunch of happy dommes who played with you a bit and moved on than a bunch of pissed off ex owners who you wont be able to play with again and revisit. if your not sure if you want to be owned or not say so you cause ladies less trouble that way. To the boys who are loyal to their ladies and give them a heads up when a domme tries to sneak them away good on you, you should be proud of your loyalty and knowing that ownership means something.

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