broken honesty

 Okay so this is more a question for boys but all ladies are welcome to and its also just my opinion on the situation.

As findommes we all know how hard it can be to find loyal long lasting subs, there are so many different styles and types of dommes from looks age domination ethnicity etc which is great I love that we're such a diverse group but at the same time subs often have domme ADD.

With that being said why ask to be owned of your only looking to play around? It doesn't make sense to promise honesty and loyalty only to be caught with your pants down so to speak. One of the main things I ask subs who want to serve me its even in my application is if they are capable of honesty and loyalty I don't lie I don't believe in lying, but seems when I ask if they want to be a community whore or loyal they rarely answer whore (to the ones who are honest kudos you make me less likely to wanna stab you in the face with a spork).

But of your just going to lose your domme in the end anyway from being caught etc.why not just be upfront and honest? I suppose it doesn't make sense to me that if you wanna play the field that badly why not announce it because hiding ownership or making profiles elsewhere to do so only seems idiotic to me if you wanna slut it up wave your slut flag proudly your more likely to piss me off by lying than by serving more than just me openly.

My mother theorized that they want commitment without loyalty so they pretend to be committed while sneaking about. Luckily for me most ladies have been out and honest if my sub tries to sneak at least here that's the case. It does make me wonder if they don't reconcile their dishonesty with seeing multiple dommes with the fact that we have multiple subs but the difference there is honesty I don't lie about my relationships.

so thanks for letting me rant I'm just genuinely wondering why the logic behind this works.

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