what submission means to me

I've beenthinking about real submission verses fetish boys so i figured i'd write my own about how i feel about the matter that and i've been feeling very into writing lately. I don't think i need to add that we're discussing financial subs here but i will anyway. I think a fetish boy will tribute either to get attention sessions pictures etc where as a real sub boy will tribute to sacrifice for his domme he doesn't need to have rewards for his tributes though they tend to appreciate them. They also tend to be more respectful in the long run.

A prime example of a true submissive is my boy Collared he's never even so much as asked me what i spend his money on and whether one or both of us are busy or not i still wake up every monday morning to find my tribute from him which he does because he knows it makes me wake up with a smile on my face. When he won my birthday tribute contest he had won a custom photo from me and he came to me respectfully for his prize he didn't ask for a pussy piture or anything trashy like that he asked for a seductive photo of me in riding gear and he's the only one who's ever seen that photo and ever will because it was taken specifically for him as he was the winner.

A prime example of a fetish boy is a guy who used to serve me back when i was a beginner i'll call him sub X he claimed submission all over his CM profile messaged me begging to tribute me but when i allowed it he wanted to pick and choose what he bought me ignoring what i really wanted at the time, so i said fuck it might as well. Well X before long begged to be owned and for a bit he started acting a little better but after a few days he admitted he'd been running around tributing anyone with beautiful long hair (this was partially why i cut off all my hair cause it was my way of saying fuck you plus i was getting tired of long hair) at that time i asked him if he was really wanting to serve me or if he just liked me for the way i looked he admitted it was my looks and then i ditched his ass he still occasionally contacts me though hasn't for a while since i've been ever more firm with him.

the point is although every lady is beautiful in their own way i don't want a sub to want me just for my looks or my body parts i want a sub who wants to serve me because of my mind because of my intelligence and my way of domination if you find me beautiful thats fine and sweet but when you submit yourself to me your submitting to me not to a picture not to a fantasy to a real live woman who though rewards good behavior isn't obligated to do so and when you decide to push the issues it makes me less likely to want to reward you.

I do also sometimes wonder if the findom fetish attracts spending addicts but thats another matter entirely. I put up my wishlists because not all subs are brave and some worship from afar i've gotten the odd gift card here and there from secret admirers and since they didn't want me to know who they were i didn't go looking i'd make a post asking who sent it if they didn't come forth that just meant he didn't want me to know. i'm not desperate i live my life without need of tribute i don't need you or have to have you i want you a choose to have you in my life, wich also in turn means if you piss me off i probably wont want you in my life anymore serving a domme is a priviledge respect that priviledge by respecting the ladies you serve boys and if your a fetish boy or a slut boy say it up front it makes me less likely to want to hit you with a clue by four.

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