Monday, September 3, 2012

buyers remorse for subs?

I've been curious if subs ever get buyers remorse after a tribute i've met a few that did but typically there was something a little off about them. So heres my question to all the true blue subbies out here would love to have my own subs chime in as well actually do you ever regret a tribute afterwards and wonder if you shouldn't have spent the money elsewhere etc (not to say the ladies aren't the best possible thing to spend it on it's more of a curiosity that was piqued from other conversations i still think we're the best place for your money)

I think it's natural sometimes after a big purchase to ask yourself did i really need this? but do you do it with your dommes as well? what feelings do you get after a tribute? some have said it can be a rush and or an addictive feeling but do you ever feel negatively towards it?

This blog of questions was brought upon by a sub recently who i've played with on and off for a while a few hours after tribute saying he's going to start getting psychiatric help for his addictiveness towards findom saying that the fetish and sites which promote it are toxic to the subs mind making it where he can only get off with tribute being spent.

Now i personally somehow doubt that because i've seen many subs over the years be able to get off no matter how much tribute was given or how frequently etc. I don't personally view this fetish as a way to ruin a person but it seems some subs do or have been ruined by it do you think only weak subs are ruined by the fetish or something was innately wrong in the situation or maybe you felt a moments fleeting regret that passed when you saw your dommes happiness? i'd genuinely like to know i welcome input from dommes as well but it's mostly a question posed to the subs

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