Jilted by time.

So you got your time wasted? well it happens to us all for a variety of reasons, whether it's because your new and don't know how much time to spend before asking for a tribute and let subs take advantage, or maybe your bored and feel like spending a little extra time on a sub, hell even if they give you a feeling like they just need to warm up to you etc. Firstly don't feel bad if you get taken for a ride it has happened to the best of us and that's a part of life sometimes instead of learning by suggestion you have to learn by learning yourself and even after learning this lesson you still might repeat it. Now that we've gotten that out of the way we'll start with how your time is only wasted if you let it.

Some dommes after this lesson have certain rules, like myself for instance my rules are until tribute is given only vanilla conversations or questions regarding their experience level take place that way they don't get anything fun for free. Other dommes i've heard only do vanilla conversations or a certain number of conversations before tribute is given so theirs ways to try and set parameters to try to avoid time wasters more though sometimes you break these parameters if you so choose or don't have them at it takes all kinds ladies. If a sub makes you feel like their wasting your time move along the fetish should be fun and if they make you feel negative i wouldn't stick around.

Subs can only waste the amount of time you give them to waste i prefer trying to get a small tribute early on in a conversation if i click with the sub even if it's 5$ it shows their serious about wanting to put something out there time wasting subs typically pinch pennies so hard they have abe Lincoln permanantly engraved on their finger so it's a semi decent way to weed them out. But here's the kicker if you decide to spend 2 hours talking constantly with a sub then tribute comes up and like some form a cheap magic poof he disappears then you wasted your time because you let him string you along if you started to feel like it was going to be a endless conversation either leave or bring up tribute sooner.

As always your the domme your in control of the conversation so don't let subs take you for a ride only to walk off and get their jollies. Will it still happen from time to time yes, but if you always keep in the back of your mind he isn't wasting my time unless i let him then your more likely to know when to set your cards down and tell it like it is and walk away hopefully this helps other ladies have less of their time wasted and a better view point.

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