ownership isn't something to be taken lightly, you wouldn't walk up and randomly propose to a woman just because you found her hot would you? (if you would then you really are a idiot) it's a commitment not to be taken lightly so before you offer yourself up for ownership ask yourself some things like firstly are you okay with serving and being loyal to one goddess and one alone? while some goddesses will occasionally let their boys tribute other goddesses it doesn't mean your free to without permission and if you can't find yourself loyal then maybe you shouldn't be owned.
Another question to ask yourself is can you be honest? why honesty you might be wondering well it's fairly simple honesty is proven fairly quickly when owned because there will always be dommes who try to poach if your not honest about them contacting you then well let me put it this way things have a habit of coming out in the wash and you'll be found out if your not up front and honest eventually and when that happens you'll get a bad reputation and dismissal which is very disgraceful.
Is the Domme your wanting to serve the right one for you? while finding your lady attractive is important keep in mind that looks fade and the biggest sex organ is the brain think about whether your goals of your servitude are aligned whether you share similar kinks or even if your compatible in a friendly manner. these are important things to consider in your search.
Are you being disrespectful by asking instantly for ownership? it's no wonder that many dommes make payout fees to end ownership when so many subs are hi i love you own me now please it's tacky and honestly makes me wanna smack subs around a bit when they do it and not in a fun way. It's one thing to tell a domme hey i think we could be compatible can i work towards ownership it's another entirely just to expect her to instantly put the work into you when no trust on either side has been built or getting to know one another.
It's a common misconception with newer subs that you have to be owned to play or owned at some point to be a "real sub/slave" well guess what that's a load of horse manure. Firstly there's community whore's subs who enjoy playing the field and theres nothing wrong with that as long as your not making promises that your not following through with. You are a real sub or slave by your definition if you don't feel you need to be owned to serve or your allergic to monogamy that doesn't make you less of a slave it just makes you who you are.
So in the end think about what you want before you bring in another persons time to be wasted think of the pros and cons of ownership if it's something you want then proceed with the lady of your choosing who is someone you can see yourself serving long term. Don't run off after ownership, Don't back out of fees that are agreed upon, Don't lie about wanting to be owned just because you think the domme wants to hear tose things. Do be yourself and be open about experience or lack of it, Do be honest about what you seek straightforward subs tend to make more friends than sneaky ones.
It's up to you whether or not you want to be owned subs are not submissive to all but they choose who they submit to theres power in that and in that power you have a responsibility to have a little slice of integrity in your actions. If a domme ran around doing unethical things she's called unprofessional (and while i disagree with that term unless she's a pro domme because then it seems more like business less like fetish) if you do things the same way as from submissive standpoint you are just as unprofessional and unethical as the dommes that are often mocked.
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