keeping your cool

Okay as Dommes we are superior but why act like a sniveling bitch about it? if you act pissed off at subs all the time their less likely to want to serve you why serve a angry person? i've noticed the more one complains about time wasters the more they seem to attract and why not they know that if your complaining about it that it might be easy to waste your time. surely i know how y'all feel sometimes you just have one of those days where everyone and anyone pisses you off and you wanna walk around with a crossbow taking everyone out like it was the zombie apocalypse but on days like that more often than not i try to avoid those triggers even if it means avoiding online that day because you shoot yourself in the foot sometimes when you go off.

You either do it by getting the attention of time wasters or trolls or you scare off shyer genuine slaves and subs. I'm by no means telling anyone what to do but sometimes it's best to write the letter and not send it than to write the letter send it and wish you hadn't later on. There are some of you like myself who do actually have anger issues (no i'm not violent i just have a temper the size of texas that i am working on) but you don't want to reveal a flaw or a weakness well goddess or not your still human and you still have them and sometimes it's good to step away than to make yourself look like less than ladylike.

In this fetish your going to find annoyances whether it's a domme you don't get along with or a sub wasting your time or your electrical equipment fucking up and pissing you off, there's a thousand and one ways for annoyances to pop up. I'm personally the type of person who tries to keep negativity out of my life that's not always possible but in the cases when it's not i try to keep calm and either walk away from the stressing factor or handle it as maturely and civilly as i can, i'm not saying i don't lose my shit on occasion i do everyone does but if you can avoid raising your blood pressure over it and maintaining grace and dignity i say try to do so as often as possible and be what your representing a goddess. if this offends anyone sorry but i have my opinions they may differ from yours but that's life.

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