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Okay this time i wanted to talk about safety for multiple reasons firstly being i've had a lot of newbie dommes asking about what they should or shouldn't allow in a RT session, as i've said previously it does have a lot to do with what your comfortable with but it also has to do with safety. Their are certain terms for safety in bdsm such as SSC RACK and PRICK the following descriptions of these were taken from the bdsm wiki page "SSC stands for Safe, Sane, Consensual. It is far and away the most recognizable and popular model of consent in BDSM circles, though not without criticism." "RACK stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. It is the second most popular consent model. It was created to overcome perceived shortcomings of SSC." "PRICK stands for Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink. It is an alternative to RACK that emphasizes personal responsibility for choices and consequences.."

While RACK and SSC are the more popular choices i want to discuss them on a different level and why PRICK is my personal choice. SSC is all about doing everything safe and while sanity and consent are definitely important factors i find SSC a little on the boring side. and for RACK think about it it
s risk aware consensual kink so basically it's going into whatever your doing with open eyes but without too much thought sometimes with PRICK you have the personal responsibility as a Dominant to think about consequences and anything that can go bad thats why PRICK is my chosen method.

Think about this for a moment if your doing CBT in a RT session with a sub and something goes wrong you could affect his life by making him sterile making him lose his genitalia etc and not only would you have to live with that guilt but it also opens you up for legal and criminal charges. there's always going to be a idiot out there who wants to go to extremes being stabbed in the testicles being hung from them etc you as a Dominant have the responsibility to say no this is too dangerous for the both of us and belongs in a fantasy (you could pretend and roleplay those things without acting them out so that they get played out without the danger) because theres no contract that avoids a illegal act.

Blackmail is another to be very well thought out, blackmail is illegal if the sub changes his mind contract or no contract he can call the cops on you if you persist. i personally do blackmail with very few subs usually after getting to know them getting a feel if their just into it for the fantasy or really into it there is a big difference between the two and you can usually tell after a bit. Especially with more extreme kinks it's best to get to know someone before attempting things as you could get your butt in some hot water if your not careful.

Besides the legal ramifications are the moral ones if a man loses his genitals from extreme CBT would you be able to live with yourself? if a man loses his wife (someone who didn't deserve or consent to be involved in your kink) or family or friends etc because of blackmail or something along those lines would you be okay with that? if you were playing breath play and the sub passed out and got brain damaged would you be able to deal with that? these are things to think about when engaging in more risky play as a Dominant your a care taker of your subs they can be treated like crap and abused but in the end it is YOUR responsibility to say NO to the subs sometimes because your the one with the final say in the end that power is yours but theres also a responsibility in being a Dominant that people don't often consider. If it's something that puts my sub in physical or emotional danger or risk i always think of the possible consequences to both of us and that is important for any successful Domme i think. And to those who engage in riskier behaviors they should think beforehand about all the possibilities both sub and domme alike. playing risky can be fun but it can also be risky and even deadly.

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