entitlement

This time i'm writing about the confusion subs often have about findommes. I've found subs who tribute often expect that they should get something and while i always try to give something back and do something positive about tributes, that doesn't mean it's owed to them and that entitled attitude is one of the number one things that makes me want to hurt them and not in a good way. I get on cam when i want to get on cam i'm cam verified on findoms and some financial fetish groups on fetlife as well as having a profile video one collarme, so i'm obviously me if a sub can't prove himself than he's not worth my time as i have more than proven myself.

While i do nudity in modeling and such it doesn't mean i'll get naked with a sub, have i? yes i can honestly say i have and i have no shame on that fact because it was what i wanted when i wanted And also he didn't ask. Just like getting to play with me in real time is a privilege anything i choose to show is a privilege tributing does not automatically allow for you to have such a privilege. I'm not a cam girl and while i am a pro domme that is approached completely different than my financial fetish. I'm not saying theres anything wrong with cam girls phone sex operators etc i'm just saying theres a clear distinction to that and financial domination.

A respectful sub should come to a domme placing tribute at her feet without expectation, even better if they don't have to be told to tribute. granted  know not all subs are going to be selfless in this sense but just don't expect that just because you buy a domme lingerie that she has to post pictures or buy her a vibrator means you get to see her use it or even know how the hell your money is being spent because it's about the fetish of handing over your hard earned cash to a wonderful dominant lady.

I get so tired of seeing subs feel an entitlement that just because they've got a few bucks they can get a domme to jump through hoops, well my response is to set your hoops on fire and make you my little bitch circus preformer and make you jump through your own hoops. I can be a very generous kind domme to those who earn my affections to those who expect it aren't worth kissing my ass.

I had a sub recently try to setup a play session on cam claimed he was rich blah blah blah but refused to tribute in the form i wanted him to which was a simple amazon gift card well once he refused i told him to take a hike, he told me he was coming to colorado in a few weeks and would give me hundreds of dollars if i gave him a second chance and met up with him my response was simple if he didn't respect my wishes online i highly doubted he would in person so i told him to shoo fly.

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